Can You Win Back A Lost Love?
Can you win back a lost love? If keeping this relationship is what your truly want but you feel hopeless, then you must be taught precisely what to do to win back your ex.
Immediately halt all behavior that comes across and hard up or desperate. Desperate behavior includes begging/pleading, non-stop phone calls, emails, you know... pretty pathetic stuff. When you push your ex, the normal human instinct is for them to withdraw even more. When you're the one chasing, you give away all your power... and that is unappealing.
Instead of working against human nature... work with it! Give your ex plenty of space. This mean no contact for a while... no phone calls, emails, messages through mutual friends, nothing for at least a few weeks, even a month or so. Yes, I know this can be really tough to do but you must make yourself do this! It will make
all the difference in the world.
By giving them their space, you show that you are no longer lost and needy.. You are no longer chasing them... and that will usually activate their interest once more. Why? Because it's human nature to be pulled towards a person who appears distant and unavailable.
Be sure to stay occupied during this time of no contact by engaging in lots of activities that you enjoy and are important to you. Get going on some of those goals you've been procrastinating on, work out, start a hobby or whatever... just make sure it's things that better your life. Your ex will see the positive changes. This combined with your new attitude of independence will almost always draw them towards you once more. Now, instead of you being the one chasing, you're both equals... and you can begin to work on the bigger issues that need healing.
Can you really win back a lost love? Yes...
